At my office desk, the condition of which you will not be able to visualize. Let me describe the master setup in bullet points. Here I go :
- There is a 500 ml bottle of AMLA JUICE which is also called Indian Gooseberry of which i have consumed just 50 ml until now.
- There is a diary which I use as a graffiti board. You will find all colors of inks used to pen down points here.
- A stapler lying like an orphan which I rarely use because I love paperless office and rarely prefer card files and box files to preserve documents.
- A stabiliser with few plug points which is exclusively used to charge my laptop and mobile phone. The extra socket in this stabilizer is causing problems for me. You can see my team members coming here with their mobile phones and requesting me with the words “May I” This now seems to be a public property and I am losing ownership title.
- There is a Gigaset phone which I have to use to call my UK colleagues. He is ORPHAN NO. 2.
- There is a telephone instrument, two water bottles and quite a sizeable area of blank space in my desk which will be occupied soon by papers, objects, materials, gadgets and what else…..
By the way – Where in the world are you?
Put a smile on your face and relax. This is the best thing you should do when someone passes such remarks. One thing is understood if the person has the privilege or enjoy the rights to say anything like this to you, he is not a stranger to you. He should have avoided saying anything like this to you. Only mediocre people have such opinion about others who are familiar to them. In nutshell, people who call you useless are senseless. They will get habituated and keep passing remarks on others until some day an insane person cause damage to them both physically and mentally.
They are vulnerable to ploy and tricks. Simple people generally listen to their hearts and react. They don’t use their brains to evaluate others. They go with the flow in the relationships. I know many people who are smart and intelligent enough to know the conspiracy and planned behavior of others, but do not think of revenge or betraying the fraudulent friends and companions. I am a simple person who would prefer to stay away from people who intend to cheat me. I remain alerted.
Because this is the only thing which we can easily afford and costs nothing. You use things which belong to you for this exercise and there is no borrowing from the outside world. The mind, body, brains, soul, heart and everything that is within you.
You are not asking other’s participation and intervention. The habit does not demand the specific place to cultivate within oneself. You can start thinking while traveling on a train, sitting in the rest room, climbing the mountains or while having a bath. There are no limits and barriers. You can think like a cop or like a hardcore criminal. Like a tech savvy obsessed to gadgets or like a saint and scholar who believes in Upanishads.
Fall in love. Love a girl who is smarter than you. With all the attempts to impress her, you will see the change in your tone. The voice, the way you speak, the etiquette and mannerisms. Your rudeness, overpowering others during communication, everything will get destroyed.
The tough guy will become soft spoken. Try it out.
People like me.
But I am still struggling to find what kind of person am I?
Caring people are always emotional.
People who have a high level of patience are generally emotional because they are receptive to others and have been listening to the problems of others throughout their life. Once you get habituated to this process at the time of interacting with others, your nature changes. You put things like love, sympathy, feelings etc above wealth, status, name, fame, and glory.
These are my views. There may be many other answers to this question.
It is necessary to be FHEKU sometimes. Sharing cooked up stories to add smiles on people’s faces is my hobby. This is not a crime or sin. Since childhood, I have been a very talkative person so behaving like a successful FHEKU is not a difficult thing for me. One thing I ensure I don’t deliver anything which will hurt others. You meet me in person and I will prove to you that I am an entertainer.
No scope for satisfactory appraisal by the employers in professional life.
Weak eyesight and some business for the opticians
Kids will start avoiding me because I will now be considered as a philosopher giving lectures and not an entertaining father.
Fifty percent off in railway tickets. A facility is in the queue but 10 more years to go.
Grey or otherwise white hairs.
Youngsters of my kid’s age will start touching my feet and seek blessings which I generally hate.
I will struggle to cope up with the pace of technology upgrades.
Typing speed will accelerate because this is the only thing which I am very much conversant.
There is no reason as such but people are tempted to avoid those who are not similar to them in terms of physical beauty. Odd man out is always targeted. It depends on the upbringing, the society to which they belong, the friend circle and everything around. If the behavior is natural we can at least forgive but if they are given instructions by their parents to avoid ugly people, then it is a matter of concern.
Check the history and you will find many examples who were not good by appearances but have achieved milestones.
Here I would like to bring to your notice, there are people who don’t like the company of fat and ugly but because they are rich, they forcibly try to prove that they enjoy spending times with people who have a personality clash.
Example : Boney Kapoor tying knot with Sridevi.
“One day while walking down the street, I saw a woman coming out of an ATM with a black purse” I don’t know if she had withdrawn money or not but one thing I can sense, she was listening Bollywood song because I could see headphones attached to her ears and mobile in her hand., perhaps latest item number. I can make out from her facial gestures. There are possibilities it could be baby doll, munni badnaam hui, bano tera swagger but I was not sure. To gather courage and enquire about her choices of songs was out of the question because I generally don’t speak to lovely ladies who are beautiful and also a stranger to me. If they don’t respond I would be making a mockery of myself so better avoid such interaction.
She stood at the bus stop which was close to the ATM center. Suddenly a Honda city arrived and gentlemen offered her lift and she, without any hesitation stepped in and VANISHED FROM MY LIFE. This was THE END of our short meeting where we both were deaf and dumb but not blind. We saw each other but did not utter a single word. Such is life diaries. Thanks for reading.